The Story of Going from Day Job to Entrepreneur

There’s the long, honest answer of how I went from day job to full-time entrepreneur, which is that it took time and effort to put the pieces into place.

It was about positioning myself for the opportunity. It was about working to create that opportunity. It was about honing my skills to take advantage of that opportunity. It was about building a network to support my seizing of the opportunity.

Of course, all of those things are connected. It’s not like it’s a linear process, at least it wasn’t for me, through which you do A, then B, then C and eventually get to E or F or whatever.

Maybe in the future I’ll lay out for you more about the long-tail version of how I went from employee to Limbertwig. It’s quite a story.

Today, though, let’s focus on the specific events which led to where I am today.

Back in November I interviewed for an online marketing position with a DC real estate brokerage firm. They ended up hiring someone else (who is great, by the way), but asked if I would help as a consultant. I’ve been doing this since December.

In February a friend asked if I would contribute some blog posts to his company’s blog. This is someone I’ve known since 2009, who was introduced to me by someone I worked with in the job that brought me from Kansas City to DC, but that’s getting into the long-tail version so you’ll have to wait.

Shortly after agreeing to contributing blog posts, I entered into an agreement to provide content marketing services to a startup based in DC that provides on-demand office space.

At this point, this was all I could handle while working. I couldn’t take on anymore work while staying in my job, which wasn’t a problem because I didn’t have any other opportunities presenting themselves.

Then the friend who hired me to contribute blog posts asked me to help him at SXSW. He needed someone who could help him network and cover a lot of ground, and the conference is so massive it takes more than one person.

It’s now March.

I’m at SXSW, and while at one of the conference’s famous networking parties my friend bumps into a couple of women from an agency that’s looking for someone they can contract to do search engine optimization (SEO) work. My friend mentions this to me, I go speak with the women, we exchange business cards, and they say they’ll be in touch.

I return home from Austin, have surgery to fix a busted ear drum, and make a ton of followup emails and calls on behalf of my friend, the main reason I went to SXSW.

One day I miss a call on my cell. It’s a voicemail from the owner of the agency needing a vendor to provide SEO work. The two women I met at SXSW had passed my info onto their boss as they said they would.

I called back, but didn’t hear anything for a few days. Then he called me a second time, but again I couldn’t aswer and called him back, leaving another voicemail. Then I didn’t hear anything for several days, so I assumed it didn’t work out.

At this time a job opportunity presents itself.

I want it, pursue it, but it would force me to take a huge paycut. Because I really wanted the job, Chad and I hammered away at our budget, seeing what we could do to make it work. In the end it just wasn’t feasible for us, but in going through that process we realized how much flexibility we really had in our finances, both in our monthly budget and long-term savings.

The day after negotiations for the job opportunity fell through, the head of the agency calls me back. We talk for an hour, he says he’d like to hire me as his SEO vendor. I agree, sign an agreement, and realize now I have to leave my job or else I can’t do all the work I’ve agreed to do for the agency and for my existing clients.

At this point I should note my employer at the time was just about to pay out our annual bonus. And because I had worked there a couple of years, I had a decent amount of vacation time saved up, and the employer pays you for vacation time you’ve earned if you leave the organization.

In other words, there was an influx of capital coming my way.

I’m ecstatic. I realize now is my opportunity to seize entrepreneurship. Chad isn’t so convinced.

He and I go to dinner, and throughout the course of what is sometimes a contentious discussion over some drinks and some Mexican food, he realizes this is my opportunity. He realizes I want this, can do this, and he decides to support me in doing it.

I give my notice at work. I work hard to leave what I was doing for my employer in a good place, and I write my last-day-of-employment post. Then I walk out of my office for the last time, immediately heading home because I already have a call scheduled with the agency for whom I’m now their SEO vendor.

And it hasn’t stopped since.

The first thing I learned about full-time entrepreneurship is how fast time flies. My very first day I started work around 8 a.m. at our dining room table, barely got up, and suddenly it was lunch time. I scarfed down a sandwich and before I knew it Chad was coming home from work.

That’s why I had neglected to give you this story, this tale of how I went from day job to full-time entrepreneur.

There aren’t enough hours in the day. And I’m comitted to maintaining a certain quality of life, meaning I go to the gym everyday. I spend at least half my weekends relaxing. I rarely work on Friday nights.

Other than this, I’m more or less always working.

And that’s the story of how Limbertwig came to be.

Some of this blog’s content strategy is now the Limbertwig blog content strategy. The book reviews and other help-for-entrepreneurs posts will move over there, complimented by guest posts focused on providing help to entrepreneurs.

This blog is going to become more of a personal voice about the lessons, trials and successes of being a first-time entrepreneur. I won’t yet commit to a publishing schedule, but it feels good to write. I need to write. So I promise to write.

Till next time…

What I’m Doing Now that I Left My Job

Forgive me for leaving you in a lurch. There’s so much to tell you, I kept waiting for the perfect time to do so.

Turns out that “perfect time” is on the frustrating end of a sleepless night. One of my entrepreneur friends told me soon after I made the decision to become a full-time entrepreneur, “Congratulations. Get ready to not sleep.”

Originally this was one blog post, but the growing word count justified me breaking this into two posts. Lest you think I’ll make you wait another month, the second will publish tomorrow.

Since the day I left my job, time has accelerated. I wouldn’t even have known it was nearly a month ago today that I became a full-time entrepreneur had I not written a blog post commemorating the occasion.

Sometimes you quit your job to go into entrepreneurship and the work dries up, or you leave to go set something up that eventually leads to full-time work.

That’s not the case with myself. I have more work than I can do. There aren’t enough hours in the day, the week or the month for me to maximize the opportunity with which I’ve been presented. (Or is it the opportunity I have created or seized?)

What I’m Doing

My company is Limbertwig, and the goal is to help organizations tell their story online using a number of methods from social media to search engine optimization and media relations. While I wanted to be a full-time entrepreneur, there’s a bigger purpose behind Limbertwig. Limbertwig icon, the letter "L," the top vertical part black and the bottom horizontal part white, against an orange background.

Throughout my career I’ve been fortunate to do many different things, fill many different roles (PR, webmaster, social media manager, journalist, SEO expert, content marketer). What I realized over the past six months is that the myriad skills and experiences I have are a strong package of assets businesses need, and for which they’re willing to pay.

Limbertwig makes available that package of assets.

Today I am the sole employee, though I could already scale up a bit if I carved out some time to think about it. Actually, it’s more when I have time to look for someone. Starting out I could use an intern, if you know anyone. I’ll pay them. They don’t have to be in DC, but they do have to be awesome.

Anyway, like any new business, it’s a little awkward with Limbertwig right now.

There’s the vision for where the company will be in three months, six months, a year, but the vision of course doesn’t currently match the reality. One of the things I’m constantly focused on is scale and streamline.

Right now Limbertwig is basically an assortment of online marketing-related services. It’s a little piecemeal or disjointed, partly because it’s a new company that’s got some rough edges, and partly because many of our currents were signed before we hammered out our service offerings.

So better integration of Limbertwig’s services, and better alignment of those services with our clients, is a primary focus area of mine.

How You Can Benefit

There are several ways you can get value out of Limbertwig.

You can see daily funny, interesting stuff around entrepreneurship by liking Limbertwig on Facebook.

You can get several tweets a day of useful content by following Limbertwig on Twitter.

You can receive helpful posts written by and for entrepreneurs by subscribing to Limbertwig’s blog.

And you can get a monthly email newsletter filled with content and other things beneficial to entrepreneurs by subscribing to Stuff for Entrepreneurs.

Coming Up

So this is what I’m doing, but what about how I got here?

For that story, I’ll fill you in tomorrow.

Today I Do Something Stupid

Today I do something stupid. Insane and potentially catastrophic.

You know how in some movies a character wakes up and because of some narrator or flash forward, you know that day is the day the character dies? Today may in a way be that day for me, except I won’t actually die today…hopefully.

Today is the day I walk out on a good-paying, secure job that has excellent benefits.

Tomorrow is the day I begin the hunt-and-gatherer existence of a service-providing entrepreneur.

What am I leaving?

In financial terms, I’m leaving the most money I’ve ever made. Money is relative, so to some what I’m giving up would be crumbs from the king’s table, but for myself and most Americans, it’s the kind of money you don’t leave on the table when you’re 32.

Especially when you’re a 32 year old who grew up on a farm, didn’t graduate college until he was 26, and even then only barely.

To read the story of my life from day one until day 11,794, that’s today, is to read about a boy who won a lottery ticket. I shouldn’t be here. Yet I am.

And today I’m giving it all up, cashing in my chips and walking away from the table all because I think there’s a bigger payout at another casino.

At this other casino, though, the payout isn’t just financial. It’s spiritual. It’s unquantifiable. It’s something I have to try and achieve or I will grow more bitter with each day I don’t try to achieve it.

If I don’t test myself in this way, in seeing if I can make it as a full-time entrepreneur, I won’t want anything I can have for the rest of my life.

That’s not melodrama. That’s self awareness.

Many of the entrepreneurs I’ve gotten to know over the past year have told me that’s often what it takes for you to finally go out on your own. You have to want it more than you want almost anything else.

I got to that point. I felt like I would rather just disappear than to not try building my own thing.

So what will I be doing?

As I mentioned, I’ll be providing a service. I love helping people. I love working with entrepreneurs. I have some skills and experience I think can help entrepreneurs.

The details of exactly what I’ll be doing I’m not officially announcing just yet. I’m still getting things ready for you.

You’ll be able to see it soon enough.

For now all you need to know is today I’m doing something stupid. And I couldn’t be happier.

Let’s do this.

Wait for It…Wait for It

Just a note to let you know I’m pausing Helpreneur content for just a bit while I work on something big.

Well, it’s big to me. I need a little time to put it together, then will resume trying to produce content helpful to entrepreneurs and people who want to be.

Thanks for your patience.

Here’s a Story About a Kid

Today oral arguments began in the U.S. Supreme Court on California’s Proposition 8 case, and tomorrow the Court will arguments about the Defense of Marriage Act. Human Rights Campaign red equal sign in support of marriage equality

Most will say these cases are about same-sex marriage, but to me they’re about the kid on the farm in a part of the country no one cares about. This is a kid with potential. He or she is smart, creative, willing to work for something good and big and awesome.

This kid shows off an early entrepreneurial leaning with lemonade stands and selling pumpkins grown in the family garden.

Except this kid has something woven inside of them they don’t understand. And when they look outside of themselves to understand it, they see an ocean of intolerance.

So they turn into themselves. They grab at the thing they know most, religion, a religion which says they are bad and sinful and possibly possessed.

This kid prays and fasts and reads their Bible. They splay themselves out on their bedroom floor time and time again, begging God to deliver from them this thing, this demon that will ruin their life and propel them toward eternal damnation.

This kid hopes their brother and parents never learn of their struggle because if they did, if the kid’s secret gets out, what hell on Earth will they endure?

The kid, once happy and excited with life, contemplates finding peace by ending their own life.

In the end, no matter their level of faith, deliverance is not the fate for this kid.

They grow up, move off the farm, and still they battle with what’s inside them. They make choices hoping they can by sheer force repel the secret that increasingly bangs on the walls of their conscience.

The kid drifts. Their sole purpose becomes drowning out the screams from inside them.

A day comes when the kid relents. It’s the decision that can undo everything, but the white flag must be raised before their internal struggle. Surrender to their identity is the only way to avoid a slow death.

The kid is gay. Now they have to learn what that means and entails.

They learn they’re actually the same person they’ve always been, just truer to who they really are.

They learn how to date and love in a new way, a way they only know from a few TV shows, movies and friends. But they make it work. They try to apply how they were raised to their new “lifestyle.”

One day the kid finds someone they connect with in a way they never thought possible. They realize it’s love. They realize it could mean forever.

There’s coming out to brother and parents, and there’s coming out to cousins, aunts and uncles.

What happens next is a reawakening.

The kid remembers they once wanted to be an entrepreneur. At one time the kid could have had it all.

And so the kid starts up, gets to work, goes back to school, gets blogging, growing a network, and trying to catch up on all the time lost to something they tried to kill.

What’s happening in the U.S. Supreme Court isn’t about gay marriage.

This is a blog about entrepreneurship, so if it isn’t clear, what I’m saying is a country that has marriage equality is a country potentially with a culture more accepting to gay kids who could be entrepreneurs.

What I’m saying is, it’s impossible for me to not wonder where I’d be today had I grown up in a country with marriage equality.

Should You Read “Never Eat Alone?”

March 17-23 is Networking Week here at TheHelpreneur.com. This is the final of three posts this week related to growing and managing your network.

In the past year I’ve gone from  rolling my eyes at the word “networking” to nearly bowing down before it.

Book cover of Keith Ferrazzi's "Never Eat Alone"

Keith Ferrazzi’s “Never Eat Alone” (affiliate link)

One book I’ve read in that timeframe that both drives home the importance of having a strong network, and gives comprehensible, actionable ways to grow and care for your network, is Keith Ferrazzi’s “Never Eat Alone” (affiliate link).

Maybe it’s because I identify with Ferrazzi’s working-class background. Maybe it’s because he and I are both from small towns, or because we both grew up wondering why some people in our town got all the perks while the rest of us worked.

What I know is he’s put together a book that anyone serious about growing their network can read, filled with ideas and suggestions anyone serious about growing their network can implement.

Premise:

Ferrazzi grew up blue collar, but through the power of networking was able to go to good schools, get great opportunities and have a successful career. In “Never Eat Alone,” Ferrazzi explains both the importance of networking and how he does it. He mixes his experience with tips, strategies and proof, at least in his opinion, that networking pays off.

Strengths:

- Entertaining. Ferrazzi does a good job of weaving stories from his life into the book.

- Inspiring. You’ll definitely be energized to grow your own network.

- Useful. Not only will you want to grow your own network, reading this book will help you think of how you can do so.

Weaknesses:

- Boastful. Ferrazzi’s an accomplished guy, but at times his tales come across as a little too much bragging.

- Outdated. The book was published in 2005. Many of the tools Ferrazzi mentions either don’t exist or are far different than they were back then. And of course the world has new options available to the active networker Ferrazzi couldn’t have used eight years ago.

Best Quotes:

- “Poverty, I realized, wasn’t only a lack of financial resources; it was isolation from the kind of people that could help you make more of yourself.”

- “It’s better to give before you receive. And never keep score. If your interactions are ruled by generosity, your rewards will follow suit.”

- “Mustering the audacity to talk with people who don’t know me often simply comes down to balancing the fear I have of embarrassment against the fear of failure and its repercussions.”

- “When our relationships are stronger, our businesses and careers are more successful.”

- “Real power comes from being indispensable. Indispensability comes from being a switchboard, parceling out as much information, contacts, and goodwill to as many people—in as many different worlds—as possible…”

Should You Read It?

If you’re reading this blog, you should probably read Keith Ferrazzi’s “Never Eat Alone,” because you’re probably running or interested in running your own business. You’re probably an entrepreneur, real or imagined, and having a strong, active network is going to be essential to your success.

Even if you don’t want to be an entrepreneur, you probably want to make more money. So read this book. It will help.

The only people I can think who may not need to read this book are those who are already expert networkers like Ferrazzi…or maybe terrorists, spies and a few other groups who actually may benefit from not being known.

For the rest of us, success, joy, power and the ability to help all comes from having a healthy, active network we nurture. Keith Ferrazzi’s “Never Eat Alone” (affiliate link) is an essential book to read in growing and caring for that network.

How to Grow and Care for Your Network

March 17-23 is Networking Week here at TheHelpreneur.com. This is the second of three posts this week related to growing and managing your network.

In the past year I’ve gone from barely having a network, to actively growing and managing a group of entrepreneurs, investors and media.

These are people whose businesses I get to know. These are folks I trust, support, and for whom I root. I want to help them, and I cherish my relationship with them.

But how can you grow and care for your network?

Screenshot of Google News Alert setup

Google News Alert is just one tool you can use to manage your network.

What’s below isn’t a blueprint, but should help you to come up with solutions and ideas that work for you.

How I Grow My Network

When the chance to write for a local DC blog presented itself, I used the opportunity to meet DC entrepreneurs.

Almost every entrepreneur wants themselves or their company to be covered in the media. So I write about entrepreneurs for the blog, Borderstan.com, and get to meet the movers and shakers among DC’s entrepreneurs.

After a few months of this, a friend and entrepreneur suggested I start organizing a monthly breakfast of entrepreneurs.

For two hours each month 10-15 entrepreneurs are invited to a breakfast at a rotating location in DC. Coffee and bagels are served, and everyone discusses their challenges, successes and shares ideas and solutions. I get to moderate and listen, and meet new folks who other entrepreneurs suggest I invite.

Both blogging and the breakfast grow, and provide value to, my network.

The more entrepreneurs I get to know, the more likely it is an investor or journalist will give me time over coffee or lunch because they know I’m not a crackpot, and because it’s possible I can at some point help them with something they need.

How I Care for My Network

Once someone is in my network, meaning I trust them or value their business or have a good feeling about them, I create a Google News Alert for them and their business.

Every time they or their business is mentioned by name somewhere online, I get an email with a link to that item. If nothing else, this lets me know what everyone is up to. Sometimes it allows me to send them a quick note saying “great job” and “glad to hear things are going well.”

I don’t do this to suck up. I genuinely care about them and their company, so I want to know what’s happening. And if I feel like it’s worth reaching out to them over, to me that’s the next logical step.

Who doesn’t like being patted on the back?

Another tool I use to manage my network is Contactually.

It’s a DC-based company whose founders I know, and whose solution reminds me when it’s been a while since I communicated with a contact. I use the paid version of Contactually because I want my social conversations to be tracked, too.

For example, if I direct message someone on Twitter, I want Contactually to record that conversation. The paid version of Contactually does just that.

Bottom Line for You

Whether you can or want to blog or host a breakfast doesn’t matter.

What matters is that if you want to grow your network you first need to identify who you want in that network. I wanted to know more entrepreneurs.

Figure out the needs of people you want to meet and how you can fill them.

Blogging allowed me to give entrepreneurs and their businesses attention. The breakfast allowed me to give entrepreneurs access to others for idea sharing.

And once you add someone to your network, you need to find a solution that works for you in maintaining those relationships.

For me it’s Google News Alerts and Contactually. For you it may be something else entirely, but whatever it is, you need to have a system for keeping in touch.

Your network is a garden of relationships which need care and maintenance.

What tips or tools do you use for growing and caring for your network?

Wonder How to Network? Start Caring

March 17-23 is Networking Week here at TheHelpreneur.com. This is the first of three posts this week related to growing and managing your network.

I’m at yet another networking event at SXSW last week when someone asks me what my trick is to being so good at working a room.

The question hits me because not long ago I’d rather be home burying my face in a tub of ice cream than networking.

Networking Fall 2011

I’m the kid who once was so afraid of being around others he stayed inside his parents’ minivan during one of his brother’s basketball games. I’m the guy who once didn’t leave his apartment from Friday evening until Monday morning.

There’s a significant part of me that believes I have nothing interesting to say, no one will like me, and everyone makes fun of me behind my back. I used to let that part of myself dictate my behavior, and it set me immeasurably behind where I could be.

Over the past year I’ve realized the importance of a network.

More importantly, I’ve realized what networking really is: Caring about other people.

While introducing myself to strangers isn’t something which comes naturally to myself, caring about others is.

So my answer to the person at SXSW who asked me how I was so good at working a room is that I generally want to learn about other people. If I don’t make the effort, I’ll never know what they do, where they’re from and all sorts of interesting things you learn just from speaking with someone.

Of course there’s a business benefit to my networking. After all, that’s what brings me to networking events like those at SXSW, but I’m not there to just trade business cards.

When I extend my hand to meet someone, I want them to talk about themselves.

Each person I meet at a networking event is someone new from whom I can learn, someone new I may be able to help.

If nothing else, each new person I meet is another story I get to hear about all their previous moments which led to them standing in front of me that day when we first meet.

Used to, when I went to a networking event I was nearly overcome with fear, but more often than not now I’m excited.

Who do I get to meet today?

If you want to be a good networker, and you should, you need to care about other people. And I mean care past the point of finding out what they can do for you.

Tomorrow I’ll list the tricks and tips I use to manage and care for my network.

Using ‘Harlem Shake’ to Stay Awake

Right now I’m listening to “Harlem Shake” (affiliate link) and “Thrift Shop” (affiliate link) as loudly as my little earbuds can play them while on a Southwest Airlines flight because I am fighting sleep.

That’s my way of saying this post could, at best, contain misspellings and, at worst, be completely incomprehensible.

For the past five days I’ve slept three to five hours a night while being on my feet virtually nonstop at South by Southwest (SXSW), networking and meeting some amazing, connected and talented individuals.

I was there on behalf of a friend’s agency and marketing conference they host in DC, but my efforts have the added benefit of helping me grow my network as I move toward forming my next company.

What I’m working on has been in the making for months.

Being at South by Southwest may greatly accelerate my move toward full-time entrepreneur all because I networked my butt off. I met everyone from venture capitalists to journalists to CEOs, corporate vice presidents to directors of marketing.

There’s incredible value in having a strong network.

Those I met at SXSW represent potential clients. They represent opportunities for me to help others. They represent people who know people.

I’m working on a series for this blog on how I grow and manage my network. Look for that next week.

In the meantime, I’m taking a tiny siesta, with no post publishing tomorrow.

I need to sleep, and I’m having minor surgery today, so I’ll be on the disabled list for a wee bit.

Next week, though, I’ll share with you the tricks and treats of my experience in networking so you, too, can benefit from the power of a strong network.

Parable of Spilled Paper Cups

Here’s a story about spilled paper cups. Hanging Cups II

Last week, while attendeding Adobe’s Digital Marketing Summit, I hovered near a coffee station when a woman working on the event staff dropped a stack of paper cups.

Cups everywhere.

Conference attendees, intent on their cup of coffee or next session, step around the cups and the woman who, easily in her fifties, was getting down on hands and knees to pick them up. Few barely notice the mess, much less the woman. No one helps.

I walk over, lend a hand corralling the wayward cups, crack a joke to ease the woman’s embarrassment, and go on with my conference.

Now it’s the next day. I’m in a session given by Coca-Cola’s Neil Bedwell about the power of storytelling to brands.

And Neil says this: “We’ve gotten too busy to just be human.”

Coke’s product is happiness. Neil explains how his company’s goal is to get people to spread happiness.

Now back to the day of the spilled paper cups.

It’s a few hours after the paper cup problem, and I’m meeting Neil at a local cafe. I reached out to him before the conference, and he graciously agreed to give me a little of his time.

Neil not only gives me his time, he gives me his perspective on where marketing and social media and branding is headed. This is important because it relates to my next entrepreneurial adventure. (More on that in a later post.)

Neil doesn’t know me. I’ve got little to offer him. He’s a busy guy, but he gave me a sliver of himself.

And in so doing Neil created an instant classic moment in my life.

What Neil doesn’t know is somewhere between picking up paper cups and meeting him, I got lost.

Doubt and questions crept in. Upset I wasn’t where I wanted to be. You know, the typical mental battles entrepreneurs wage.

Then I meet Neil. Battle won. I’m back.

We’ve got to find ways to not be too busy to just be human.

Because we may pick up paper cups we never knew were spilt. Just like Neil Bedwell.